I also need anger ...
The moment in which the pregnancy is reaching her „expiry date“
and physically and emotionally and mentally I sense that
it is „enough“,
I am feeling a level of anger …
And during the birth, I also reached moments with Saphir, my first child,
where I really said out loud „it is enough now. OUT!“
It is not aggression coming with hate and aversion ...
It is anger, an inner fire Moving things forward, letting life run.
Standing up for the things I want in my life and especially during giving birth.
Speak Up, Say out loud what you need. It is the moment where no-ones Wellbeing is more important than yours.
Let yourself get angry when it is needed.
There are so many sentences in society, that women shouldn't be angry. (as same as sadness for men)
Feelings are unisex and everybody has permission to use them in a conscious and responsible way.
For me, the anger is so important to support my body with sounds,
breathing and moving in such a dynamic way, that the baby is also knowing where to go.